Invitation to work 1-on-1
Are you a professional dad, who totally loves your kids, but find yourself struggling to make sense of a pending sense of failure in your relationship with them?
So much that it is always on your mind, silently screaming in the background when you are supposed to be focused at work. You get easily distracted and feel uncertain about yourself. If you can't make the relationship with your child work, you have convinced yourself that you can’t really be trusted to make other things work either.
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Truth is, it’s been months since you had a good night’s sleep. Now you need to sort yourself out before you destroy your connection with your kids. You have a sense that if you don’t get this right soon it will have a massive impact on all the other areas you are responsible for, where truth be told you are already beginning to fail at too.
I have a great offer to work one-on-one with you in an 8-week coaching program.
We will meet weekly via online call, supported by self-study videos, where you will learn how to create the kind of relationship where your child(ren) feel safe. As you build your self-confidence and learn to communicate more effectively, your child(ren) will begin to experience a sense of total acceptance. They will know what it feels like to belong. They will be able to model behaviors that generate a sense of connection as you learn how to effectively manage your emotions.
Before the end of the program, people around you will see how much you have already changed. You will notice that you don't make the same mistakes as before. When you do, and remember Dude, none of us are perfect, your child(ren) will see you recover quicker than ever before as you develop your personal genius state as a dad.
When you enroll ...
When you enroll for the 8-week intensive you will get access to:
A weekly LIVE coaching call, delivered on Zoom and recorded for you to keep as a resource.
A weekly segment of self-training, of a VIDEO and PDF worksheet in the membership area.
A selection of documents and tools to SUPPORT your progress. with direct ACCESS for program support.
Informed by the science of Neuro-Semantics and gleaning from my training experience of working with more than 100’000 people, I have designed your coaching program using the meta-coaching system to help you:
1 | Face your own fears of rejection and abandonment
both from the past and projected into your future. If you haven't worked this out, the unspoken fear that your child is about to abandon you because of something you have done might be driving you more than you realize.
Resolve your concept of value and self-worth | 2
You suffer from a deep sense of confusion at your core because you are easily caught up in confusing your human-being with how you behave or your human doing. It is easy to find yourself mind-reading what others are saying and then personalizing the outcomes of the misunderstanding.
3 | Re-establish a clear sense of ownership of your personal powers
If you lack a clear understanding of internal authority you might be trying to find yourself in costly coping mechanisms. Even if you are willfully blind or just still in denial here, you are also trying to get validation through the approval of others, especially your child(ren).
Learn how to deal with emotion | 4
Perhaps you believe in the unspoken law that grown men don't show their emotions. With that in place, you do not have permission to get out of your head and feel through your own emotions. You find it even more difficult to handle when the emotions of others bleed into your world, especially those of your child(ren).
5 | Become more resourceful in your relationship with conflict
When you develop your personal powers and learn how to communicate more effectively you will develop your ability to deal with conflict. One of the first big shifts here will be practicing over-responsibility less often as you develop more resourceful ways to deal with your triggers.
Create a genius state for your role as Dad | 6
Pulling together the various aspects of self-work and the insights that will learn from the supporting material, you will develop a personalized strategy that empowers you to be conscious and intentional whenever you engage with your child(ren).
The right dude for this program is a dad who loves your child(ren) and places a premium on your relationship with them. So much that you are willing to prioritize your well-earned money and tightly managed time to invest in your connection with them. As a successful professional, you are not afraid of hard work. You already know what it means to be coachable, learn new skills, put them to practice, be open to feedback, and then make adjustments until you succeed.
The price of this mid four-figure investment is worth every cent when considering the impact on the relational space with your child(ren), not to mention the caliber of man you will become in every other aspect of your life, especially your income-generating abilities.
It is time to starve your coping mechanisms and stop pretending that things aren't as bad as you have let them become. In just a couple of weeks, you can begin to enjoy the calm that comes from the experience of good standing in your relating to your kids.
If you are ready to do what it takes and win back credibility with yourself, improve your communication skills and recover the sweet taste of love in the relational space with your child(ren), then send me a Direct Message.
We can chat on messenger about my 8-week 1:1 transformational coaching program, and if it’s a good fit, get you started right away.